Kai Benton

2005 - 2005
LocationWolverhampton
Age3 months
Cause of DeathCot Death/Sudden Infant Death Syndrome
Date of Birth31/05/2005
Date of Death07/09/2005
Visitors5,999 since 23/11/2008
Creator
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kai was one of 4 boys he was the most beautiful and precious gift to me his daddy and his 3 big
brothers. he would lite up the room with his smile and he was very much loved and adored by all
those that met him and knew him in his short life.this is kais story.................

our beautiful little boy kai made his entrance on may 31st 2005.after a very traumatic pregnancy and
labour our little man entered the world weighing a whopping 8lb 4oz.kai was a very well contented
little boy who enjoyed his little life to the full.the smiles he would give would light up the
room.kai at the time was one of 4 boys, his three elder brothers just adored him. kai was a golden
baby compared to his elder brothers as they were all milk intolerant.kai was a pleasure as he took
his milk and slept through the night.we couldnt have been more happier with our new son.as the weeks
passed kai was like any other normal baby.he laughed and cooed and was so pleasant.the night before
kai passed i sat and watched all my boys together and thought how proud i was to be there mommy.its
a nite i will never forget.kai went to bed that night like he always did and woke as normal on the
morning of the 7th sept,my husband came down stairs with him so not to wake the other children.kai
settled down back to sleep so my husband lay him down.a short wile later i awoke to the pierceing
screams of my husband yelling me to call 999.as i ran down the stairs i came across my husband
frantically trying to help my little boy breathe.as we anxiously waited for the ambulance to come i
turned around and noticed my 3 other children sat on the stairs watching all that was going on.my
husband went with kai to the hospital as i waited anxiously for a relative to come and get the other
boys.a short wile later my eldest son began to cry i told him not to worry and that kai would be
home in a day or two.unforunatly that never happened shortly after reaching the hosital i was told
id lost my baby boy he was 3 and a half months old.the next few hours were a daze i had to come to
terms that my baby wasnt coming home. i also had to break it to my boys there little brother wasnt
coming home.in my head i wandered how one minute your baby is here gurgling and cooing and the next
they have gone in a blink of an eye.we had the usual inquest and it came back as sids sudden infant
death syndrome aka (cotdeath) in our minds this makes us so frustrated as theres simply no signs to
this killer you cant see or detect this condition its so unfair , you never think its going to
happen to you.kai will always be our little man we shall always love and miss him. we did have 2
special gifts from our little man thou his new baby brothers cole and codey.kai god blessed us with
you for only a short time but in those months it was the best time of our lives. we will never
forget you or your cheeky grin forever in our hearts we love you mommy daddy conor cain charlie
codey and cole x x x x x x x x

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jools just poped on to say you are such amazing little man arnt you? yes i no and your a big 4 tommorow as well ohhhhhhhh did you get your ballons off kalie and kacey thay could not wait i hope you catched them was sent with so much love kai mwahhhhhhhh see you tommorow darling love you so much and mummy daddy and your brothers catch my floaty kisses xXxXXxXxXxxXxXxXxXxXXxXx love ya xxxxxxxxxxxx

Julie Hayes (Auntie) May 30, 2009

♪♪HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ♫
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ♫
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR kai ♫
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ♪♪♪ ♫
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lots of love on your birthday honey hope you have a great time at your dressing up party with all your angel friends lots of love angel from christine xxxxxxxxx

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) May 30, 2009

hello smiler,hope your being good high up there?wanted to wish you a happy birthday for tomorrow baby,we all miss you terribly,your mommy is being so brave she is amazing,such a special mommy,i am ok,but missing you so much,like we all are.we are going to have a little tea party for you tomorrow,and watch out for your balloons,you catch them sweety, theyr'e sent with all our love, we will try really hard to be happy on your special day,you know we would give anything for you to be here with us,its so hard,cos we miss you so much.i have a few problems,i know you know,but i must face these for your brothers sake,and mommy of course. we're all heartbroken,and wonder when the pain will ease?make sure you send mommy your special angel hugs tonight,she may not say but her heart is broken. i/we wish you a very very happy birthday,up there with your angel friends darling,thinking of you always.your broken hearted daddy, i love you xxxxxxx

Mark Robert Benton (Daddy) May 30, 2009

i need your strength son

hello there baby boy..mommy n daddy and your brothers are missing you so much as always.mommy needs you to send daddy extra special love and kisses and hugs at this time as his heart is very broken and he misses you more than words can say.he needs to feel your angel hugs kai so please wrap your wings around him n tell him you know how much he loves you.he needs your strength to carry on baby and the thout of losing your daddy breaks my heart again. we need your daddy so much kai so im pleading with you to help mend your daddys broken heart and mommy and your bruvs to. please watch out for your balloons on sunday im sure you will b there to enjoy your speciqal bbq with me daddy n ur bruvs. love you so much baby keep watching down especially on daddy he needs to feel you close right now. love you kai always n forever x x x x x

Jen Benton Mommy To Angel Kai (Mummy) May 29, 2009

love from kai x

mummy and daddy you often wonder what i am like now?
my anser is im as cute as ever i watch you and will forever.
mummy and daddy you wonder if i miss you like you miss me?
the anser is i miss you for enfinaty but im never that far away as i am engraved in your heart throuh this we will never be truly apart.
mummy and daddy you made me with love and thats why im with jesus upabove i am very speacal mummy you no that and my brothers are two but jesus picked me i am still with you.
my name is small but means so much
k- keep
a- angel
i - in
see keep me in your heart and through this we will never be apart.
so gental jesus upabove give my mummy and daddy and brothers all my love xXx
love from kai xXx

Julie Hayes (Auntie) May 27, 2009

just for you kai xXx

kai mummy and daddy is so speacal you love them so much
its no fault of there own you were called to gods arms
you deseve to be with mummy and daddy and your brothers to

loseing you kai split mummys and daddys heart in to
the tears flow and all we can say is no kai it must be a
beautiful place were you are now because angel kai thats
were you stay but when we close our eyes and wisper
your name in our hearts you will always remane

god only takes the best and sure anough you rest
till we meet again be sure to be there to feel our pain
kai our love goes so deep that we will always keep untill were
safe in your arms sleep well babby we will never be apart love mummy daddy your brothers and jool xxx

Julie Hayes (Auntie) May 25, 2009

watch down on us baby kai

hey baby boy please watch over us and protect us with your angel wings from pathetic people who have nothing better to do than interfere in your loving familys lives.... pretty sad really i know but i know you will sort the rights from the wrongs and you will make sure people like them will fail in there efforts to keep us down...love you always and forever your brokenhearted mommy love and miss you so much x x x x x watch out for your balloons for your birthday kai there will be one of each and everyone of us...you are so missed and so loved by so many people that are there for your mommy daddy and all your brothers.. but im sure you know that any way... nite nite little man dont forget to come visit us in our dreams.. love you always x x x x x x x x x

Jen Benton Mommy To Angel Kai (Mummy) May 21, 2009

ALWAYS REMEMBRED ANGEL XXXXXXX

Nite God blessxxx

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Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) May 17, 2009

Sent with love ♥

Thinking of you is Easy,
We Remember you each day.
The heartbreak that we feel
Just never goes away,

♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱

Nothing is the same no more
As we try to carry on,
We want the way it was before.
We found out you were gone,

♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱

Yes we have our memories,
We also have the pain,
But all we ever wanted ..
Was to have you home again.

♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱

Copyright Jan Morris 2009

Thinking of you and your family
Love Jan & family xxxxxx

Jan Morris May 8, 2009

Sent with love ♥

Theres a part of us thats missing,
A pain deep inside our heart,
We spend our days Just wishing,
That we never had to part,

♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰

Its hard, It hurts what can we do,
We miss you more each day,
To get over the pain of losing you,
The tears never go away..

♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰

We need you in our arms.
To take away the pain,
We would walk the streets of heaven,
Just to bring you home again.

♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰

Copyright Jan Morris 2009

Thinking of you and your family
Love Jan & family xxxxxx

Jan Morris May 1, 2009
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