Kai Benton

2005 - 2005
LocationWolverhampton
Age3 months
Cause of DeathCot Death/Sudden Infant Death Syndrome
Date of Birth31/05/2005
Date of Death07/09/2005
Visitors6,002 since 23/11/2008
Creator
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kai was one of 4 boys he was the most beautiful and precious gift to me his daddy and his 3 big
brothers. he would lite up the room with his smile and he was very much loved and adored by all
those that met him and knew him in his short life.this is kais story.................

our beautiful little boy kai made his entrance on may 31st 2005.after a very traumatic pregnancy and
labour our little man entered the world weighing a whopping 8lb 4oz.kai was a very well contented
little boy who enjoyed his little life to the full.the smiles he would give would light up the
room.kai at the time was one of 4 boys, his three elder brothers just adored him. kai was a golden
baby compared to his elder brothers as they were all milk intolerant.kai was a pleasure as he took
his milk and slept through the night.we couldnt have been more happier with our new son.as the weeks
passed kai was like any other normal baby.he laughed and cooed and was so pleasant.the night before
kai passed i sat and watched all my boys together and thought how proud i was to be there mommy.its
a nite i will never forget.kai went to bed that night like he always did and woke as normal on the
morning of the 7th sept,my husband came down stairs with him so not to wake the other children.kai
settled down back to sleep so my husband lay him down.a short wile later i awoke to the pierceing
screams of my husband yelling me to call 999.as i ran down the stairs i came across my husband
frantically trying to help my little boy breathe.as we anxiously waited for the ambulance to come i
turned around and noticed my 3 other children sat on the stairs watching all that was going on.my
husband went with kai to the hospital as i waited anxiously for a relative to come and get the other
boys.a short wile later my eldest son began to cry i told him not to worry and that kai would be
home in a day or two.unforunatly that never happened shortly after reaching the hosital i was told
id lost my baby boy he was 3 and a half months old.the next few hours were a daze i had to come to
terms that my baby wasnt coming home. i also had to break it to my boys there little brother wasnt
coming home.in my head i wandered how one minute your baby is here gurgling and cooing and the next
they have gone in a blink of an eye.we had the usual inquest and it came back as sids sudden infant
death syndrome aka (cotdeath) in our minds this makes us so frustrated as theres simply no signs to
this killer you cant see or detect this condition its so unfair , you never think its going to
happen to you.kai will always be our little man we shall always love and miss him. we did have 2
special gifts from our little man thou his new baby brothers cole and codey.kai god blessed us with
you for only a short time but in those months it was the best time of our lives. we will never
forget you or your cheeky grin forever in our hearts we love you mommy daddy conor cain charlie
codey and cole x x x x x x x x

to all that visit our angels site please feel free to leave a message or light a candle as this
helps us keep our sons memory alive.


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.*.*.*.*.*. NIGHT NIGHT ANGEL .*.*.*.*.*.


The angel came down to earth
And gave me some angel wings

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I look down on my family
And watch them day by day
I know my family need me
But I am so far away

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I know you are asking
Where did you go wrong
And why does it hurt so much
And how do you go on

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But please understand my family
You are still very dear to my heart
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I will always love and miss you
And will welcome you when you come home

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I send you my love always
Your angel xXx

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written by Jo Dalton 2009

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) July 4, 2009

our darling kai

We thought of you with love today.
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday.
And days before that too.
We think of you in silence.
We often speak your name.
Now all we have is memories.
And your picture in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake.
With which we'll never part.
God has you in his keeping.
We have you in our heart..

love you forever baby mommy n daddy n your bruvs x x x x x

Jen Benton Mommy To Angel Kai (Mummy) June 27, 2009

for you mommy daddy and my brothers x

When tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for,
So much yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for awhile,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,
He said "This is eternity,
And all I've promised you."
Today for life on earth is past,
But here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day's the same day
There's no longing for the past.

But you have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Thought there were times you did some things,
You knew you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven
And now at last you're free.
So won't you take my hand
And share my life with me?

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.

Jen Benton Mommy To Angel Kai (Mummy) June 27, 2009

we miss you s mch kai x

We little knew that morning,
God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.

It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone.
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.

You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.

Our family chain is broken,
and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.

Jen Benton Mommy To Angel Kai (Mummy) June 27, 2009

to our sweet prince kai

hello there darling boy mommy just wants to tell you that im going to do a sponcered head shave just for you...me and aunty jools want you to have the best garden you could have at home where your daddy and your brothers and mommy can share it with you...its not the same as if you were here but i will lose every hair on my head just to give you the headstone and garden you really do deserve. daddy and your bruvs are going to do some fun things too to raise money for your garden. i wish it didnt have to be this way baby but if i could turn back the clock i would in an instant....i hope we do you proud kai... or hearts are breaking and sometimes mommy thinks this is just a terrible dream that i will wake from...we love you always and forever darling keep watching down on us......we miss you so so much the pain is unbearable but i know you wold want me to stay strong for daddy and your bruvs so thats what im trying to do...love you darling missing you every minute of everyday love you always mommy x x x x x

Jen Benton Mommy To Angel Kai (Mummy) June 24, 2009

Mummy

Mummy I know you love me and mummy I know you care,
Mummy I know how sad you are and can see all your tears,
Mummy I know how much you wanted me and forever hold me tight,
Mummy just look at the night sky and find the star so bright,
Mummy I am with you every step along the way,
Mummy you will see me again and then we will play,
Mummy please remember God only takes the best,
So Mummy he took me to among the rest,
mummy I know it is hard for you and I love you so,
But Mummy please know there is a special place that all Baby Angels go to,
So Mummy try and smile for me and let your love remain,
For one day when the time is right,we will be together again.
Copyright @ Sandy

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) June 22, 2009

Hello my beautiful angel.
I've been feeling so low today,
So I came on GTS for I have so much I want to say.
I feel so sad and I don't know what I can do,
I miss you so much as I sit by my computer as I cry for you.

So I switched on my computer,
To send you all my love,
And light a candle or two..
For you my angel up above.

I log into my garden,
Type my password in with love,
I know that one day I will be with you in heaven,
My angel up above.


copyright� Jackie Thomas 10/06/09.

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) June 20, 2009

~♥~♥~♥~LOVE LIVES ON~♥~♥~♥~

Those we love
are never really lost to us -
we feel them
in so many special ways-
through friends
they always cared about
and dreams they left behind,
in beauty that they added to our days...
in words of wisdom we still carry with us
and memories that never will be gone...
Those we love are never really lost to us -
For everywhere their special love lives on.

(Amanda Bradley)xxxxxxxx from christine xxxxxx

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) June 11, 2009

GOODNIGHT SWEET ANGEL .........


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★ ◦˚◦ ☆ ◦˚◦ ★◦˚◦ ☆ ◦˚◦ ★ Lighting your candle with Lots of Love. X X X ★ ◦˚◦ ☆ ◦˚◦ ★◦˚◦ ☆ ◦˚◦ ★

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) June 6, 2009

happy brithday
Precious Kai
Hope you had a wonderful day full of fun & games at your birthday party with all your friends

Sending Love & {[Hugs}} to you and your family
Sweet Dreams Precious
Love Lorraine
~x*X*x~

Lorraine Sams Mummy June 1, 2009
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