Kai Benton

2005 - 2005
LocationWolverhampton
Age3 months
Cause of DeathCot Death/Sudden Infant Death Syndrome
Date of Birth31/05/2005
Date of Death07/09/2005
Visitors6,002 since 23/11/2008
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kai was one of 4 boys he was the most beautiful and precious gift to me his daddy and his 3 big
brothers. he would lite up the room with his smile and he was very much loved and adored by all
those that met him and knew him in his short life.this is kais story.................

our beautiful little boy kai made his entrance on may 31st 2005.after a very traumatic pregnancy and
labour our little man entered the world weighing a whopping 8lb 4oz.kai was a very well contented
little boy who enjoyed his little life to the full.the smiles he would give would light up the
room.kai at the time was one of 4 boys, his three elder brothers just adored him. kai was a golden
baby compared to his elder brothers as they were all milk intolerant.kai was a pleasure as he took
his milk and slept through the night.we couldnt have been more happier with our new son.as the weeks
passed kai was like any other normal baby.he laughed and cooed and was so pleasant.the night before
kai passed i sat and watched all my boys together and thought how proud i was to be there mommy.its
a nite i will never forget.kai went to bed that night like he always did and woke as normal on the
morning of the 7th sept,my husband came down stairs with him so not to wake the other children.kai
settled down back to sleep so my husband lay him down.a short wile later i awoke to the pierceing
screams of my husband yelling me to call 999.as i ran down the stairs i came across my husband
frantically trying to help my little boy breathe.as we anxiously waited for the ambulance to come i
turned around and noticed my 3 other children sat on the stairs watching all that was going on.my
husband went with kai to the hospital as i waited anxiously for a relative to come and get the other
boys.a short wile later my eldest son began to cry i told him not to worry and that kai would be
home in a day or two.unforunatly that never happened shortly after reaching the hosital i was told
id lost my baby boy he was 3 and a half months old.the next few hours were a daze i had to come to
terms that my baby wasnt coming home. i also had to break it to my boys there little brother wasnt
coming home.in my head i wandered how one minute your baby is here gurgling and cooing and the next
they have gone in a blink of an eye.we had the usual inquest and it came back as sids sudden infant
death syndrome aka (cotdeath) in our minds this makes us so frustrated as theres simply no signs to
this killer you cant see or detect this condition its so unfair , you never think its going to
happen to you.kai will always be our little man we shall always love and miss him. we did have 2
special gifts from our little man thou his new baby brothers cole and codey.kai god blessed us with
you for only a short time but in those months it was the best time of our lives. we will never
forget you or your cheeky grin forever in our hearts we love you mommy daddy conor cain charlie
codey and cole x x x x x x x x

to all that visit our angels site please feel free to leave a message or light a candle as this
helps us keep our sons memory alive.


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Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) September 11, 2009

♥ღ♥ My Angel ♥ღ♥

♥ღ♥ You'll always be my angel
Of happiness and love
You'll always be my angel
Looking at me from above.

I miss you a lot
And I wish you could have stayed,
But I thought
It's better for you, so I prayed.

And I keep praying
And thinking
But also crying
And leaking.

It was tearing me apart
Before I actualy knew
Through those golden gates
Those angel guards were you.

You were everything
That you could possibly be
And now that I think of it
Why was I only thinking about me?

You'll always be my angel
Of happiness and love
You'll always be my angel
Looking at me from above.

I see
You watching over me
And hear
You speaking to me
I won't
Give up and not care
I will
Move on and be fair.

As I think about you
I might be sad for a while
But as I think again My Angel
I see your happy smile
Smiling down at me
Through the clouds
And through the sky
I've left the ground
And just died.
I'm coming to be with you
And God, too.

You'll always be my angel
Of happiness and love
You'll always be my angel
Looking at me from above ♥ღ♥
LOVE ALWAYS FROM ROBERT CHRISTINE AND FAMILY XXXX
By Mystykka Mysterious

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) September 10, 2009

kai my little brother

to kai i love your photos i feel like hugging you and holding you but i cant because your way up high in heaven.i wish you wasnt in heaven and you were here with me mommy daddy conor cain codey and cole and sinba.im sending you lots of kisses and hugs love you always kai love from charlie x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

Charlie Benton (Brother) September 7, 2009

love you kai

hello little man I'm missing you ever so much hope you ok up there. as you can see we are all very upset that your gone and instead of you going to nursery like you should sadly codey is instead it was his first day today. down here we are trying at the moment to do you a special little memorial garden mommy and daddy are trying ever so hard to get it done. Mom has done a head shave for you and dad is doing a leg wax too. these are sponsors to raise money to do you your memorial garden. love you ever so much every night i think of you for a bit before i go to sleep. I love you Kai loads and loads and loads xxxxxxxxxxxx

Conor Benton (Brother) September 7, 2009

HAPPY ANIVERSARY

happy anniversary little bro miss you loads. hope you are alright in angel heaven wish i could see your statue where you was buried. when i was doing handwriting i came up across the letter K then i new it was your anniversary love u loads from Cain x x x x x x x

Cain Benton (Brother) September 7, 2009

hello angel sending loads of love today as always to you and all your loving family hope your having loads of fun with all your angel friends on this your angel day love always from christine robert and family xxxxx

Angel Ishbells Parents (GTS Friend) September 7, 2009

hey kai

hello little fella just to let you know ur lil bro codey cried at nusery today and then he fell asleep on the bean bags when daddy picked him up...keep watching over him son love you always and forever hope you are enjoying nursery in heaven x

Jen Benton Mommy To Angel Kai (Mummy) September 7, 2009

THINKING OF YOU ALL

Sorrow Needs Teardrops



Flowers need the raindrops,

To bloom again in spring.

Like sorrow needs teardrops,

To ease the suffering.

Loss is hard to handle,

And never goes away.

But a heart is very special,

It's where your memories stay.

Take all the time you need,

To grieve the loss you feel.

So your heart can be freed,

And begin to heal.

Then the sunshine will follow,

And shine again someday,

After you release your sorrow,

You'll see a brighter day.
LOVE ALISON XXXXXX

Alison Moss September 7, 2009

fogot to say kai

i forgot to tell you kai your little brother codey started nursery today but i suppose you already know!!! keep watching down and protecting your brothers son cos they too love and miss you so much. x x x x x x x

Jen Benton Mommy To Angel Kai (Mummy) September 7, 2009

four long years ago son, you went without warning, i only wish we didn't have to write these words,tears run down my face as i send you all our love, we miss you so much, love you always mommy and daddy, and your brothers.xxxxxx

Jen Benton Mommy To Angel Kai (Mummy) September 7, 2009
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